Friday, March 18, 2011

Proud to be puke free

I have so much exciting Madie news to report I’m not sure where to start.  First, we got a call last week that we had finally gotten approval for Madie’s stroller/wheel chair and her gait trainer.  We are so excited to see how she does with both.  We have been using a chair that OCH let us borrow and we are so very grateful to have had it.  Madie loves to be outside and since she weighs 27 pounds carrying her around the entire time isn’t really an option.  The only problem is that it weighs a ton!  Madie’s new chair is very lightweight and it will give us the freedom to load and unload it easily so we can start taking Madie to a lot of new and exciting places.  Pretty sure a trip to the zoo is in our very near future!  We are hoping that the gait trainer and chair will both be delivered with a couple of weeks.
Madie is doing GREAT on her new formula.  She hasn’t been throwing up at all, PRAISE THE LORD.  We have gotten the length of her feed down to an hour and fifteen minutes, and our hope is that starting this week we can get her feed down to one hour.  This is a goal we have been trying to reach since Madie had her G-Tube surgery at the beginning of October and it feels amazing to be so close to meeting it!  Once we meet that goal I suppose we will shoot for an even shorter feed with longer time in between.  Now that we are getting Madie closer and closer to an hour feed she is also making BIG improvements accepting things by mouth.  This week Madie has taken drinks from a sippy cup, eaten animal crackers and ritz crackers.  She still isn’t ready to have a tube feed replaced with an oral feed but we are moving in the right direction.  Matt and I continue to be amazed by her progress and we are so thankful that God continues to show us that hears all of our prayers.  Ashley, M’s speech therapist also got her to take a couple of sucks on a pacifier.   Ashley said we are going to have to have a big party when we finally get to remove Madie’s G-tube.  I think big party would be a pretty large understatement. 
We hear Madie make new sounds and noises everyday but she is still not using words besides an occasional Mama or Dada, which she doesn’t repeat consistantly.  She is very much aware of what you are asking her though.  If you ask Madie where Mommy, Daddy, Molly Michael, Jenny, MomMom, Pop, etc. are, she will immediately turn her head, find you and give the biggest grin.  If we are sitting in the living room when Matt gets home from work and I say “Daddy is Home!” she will sit up, smile and look at the front door.  We have started trying to teach her some sign language and if you say “eat” she will sign “eat”.  She is so smart and you can see the wheels turning.  We know that big things are in store for her.
Occupational Therapy and Physical therapy are also going really well.  She gets a little stronger every week and is becoming more tolerant of her tummy time.  She still is not a huge fan but we are seeing improvements and that is all that matters.  While Madie was doing some exercises on a therapy ball and Molly Michael was “assisting”  I mentioned that we used to spend an entire 30 minute therapy session just trying to get Madie to stretch her arms and legs out and lay on a therapy ball.  To remember times like that and see her know is incredible to say the least.  We firmly believe that Stephanie(OT) and Phil(PT) are such blessings to Madie and the results we are seeing back up that belief.  We are also BEYOND blessed to have Madie’s nurse Jenny.  She takes such wonderful care of Madie and Matt and I are so grateful to know that she loves Madie and wants to be part of her getting better. 
This past week has been Molly Michael’s spring break.  She got to spend one day at the office with Daddy, which from what I hear was filled with many tiny candy bars courtesy of all the sweet ladies that work with Matt.  She and I spent one day together in Longview.  We had donuts for breakfast and then went to The Mud Hut and painted a few ceramic masterpieces.  Then Wednesday we spent the day at home because Molly Michael told me that if we didn’t leave the house she didn’t have to brush her teeth.  EVERY day we argue about her brushing her teeth.  I tell her every day that she has to brush at least morning and night EVERY DAY, but for some reason it isn’t sinking in.  I am sure I am not the only mother having this problem but man oh man it is frustrating! 
Yesterday, Matt and Molly Michael went camping with our friends the Ellis’.  Madie and I stayed home because they CAMPING, like camping with no electricity, in a tent.  So I took one for the team and stayed back in the AC with my bed, laptop, cell phone, iPad, DirecTv and other fantastic amenities that they are without.  They have been gone less than 48 hours and I am beyond ready for them to come home.  Madie and I have enjoyed our one on one time but we want Daddy and Molly Michael home because we are lonely without them.  It has been way too quiet around here! 
I have a new prayer request for all of you.  A family that we go to church with and that were a source of strength for us after Madie’s accident needs your prayers.  Their son Anthony has been transferred to Children’s in Dallas for the second time in two days.  You can read his complete story and get updates
here.  Please continue to pray for and follow Charley Rae’s story as well.
Also I sit here typing this update and watching our local news, they just did a story that a 2 ½ year old drowned tonight in his family pool.  Even though I have no clue who these people are, PLEASE say a prayer for his family that they will seek and find comfort through God during this horrible time.  The news mentioned that he was playing outside with his 4 year brother and his mom went inside for just a moment.  My heart hurts for this family and I am reminded once again what a true miracle I have sleeping in the room next to me.  Perhaps, I’ll sneak in one more kiss and quick thank you prayer to the Big Guy upstairs  when I go in to give her her midnight meds…
With greatest gratitude,

Kristin, Matt, Molly Michael and Miracle Madie               

4 comments:

  1. It's very encouraging to read this posting about Madie's progress. I know that none of this would have been possible without your (the family's) faith and the prayers of so many people. I enjoy your blog and learning about Madie and Mary Michal -- The Skinner Sisters!

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  2. Sorry -- I meant Molly Michal -- don't know where I came up with "Mary!"

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  3. It makes me so happy to hear that Madie is doing so well! I think about her all the time and she helps me to appreciate the two heathen boys that I have! Keep up the good work- you all are doing a great job!

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  4. Baby Einstein has a DVD out that teaches sign language. We used it for our boys before they started talking to make communicating easier. They picked it up fast and still use some of the sign language years later.

    I have to say that you and your family have been a huge inspiration for us. Reading about how through prayer and faith in God anything is possible is truly AMAZING!!

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